The $1,000,000 love, an ecstatic communion

When I was in Ghana, we had a passionate discussion about marriage, the \’obsolete\’ nature of monogamy and the ability for men to be faithful.

One of the men was saying that statistics show that men and women are not meant to be with one person because they need diversity. And empowered women use men for divertissement and reproduction. Love was obsolete. Fidelity an illusion.

His argument was that very few are happy in marriage and men will ultimately cheat on their wives. He was also pointing that the amount of work required to really make a relationship work for the small percentage of success wasn\’t worth it. As I was listening to his return on investment theory, I realized: true love is a $1,000,000 endeavour. Let me explain.

The $1,000,000 love

Some people make $1,000 a month, some $100,000 a month, some $1,000,000 a month. There are 2 essential factors differentiating those who make $1,000,000 and the ones who make $1,000: the mindset first and the skill set second.

Before I get to those 2 essential qualities, I  would like to paint a picture that sets the stage for my argument: 90% of the masses, the workers, the ones who make $1,000 a month either aren\’t aware of the possibility of making $100,000, let alone $1,000,000 a month, or most of them can not even imagine such a thing and what it would require to get there. Out of the remaining 10% who can begin to imagine earning $1,000,000 a month, maybe 2% reach it because they are committed, consistent and limitless in their thinking.

This is the same thing for a $1,000,000 relationship. A relationship that is a physical, emotional, mental and spiritual connection is a $1,000,000 endeavor. It requires work, dedication and focus. But also an open heart and mind, limitless thinking. It brings healing to the individual, a refining of the soul and an elevation to our finest self. An ecstatic communion of two beings who can see each other with so much love, openness and compassion that they breathe in sync to mind blowing orgasm. Genitals, heart, mind and soul engaged. Orgasmic love. That\’s the $1,000,000 sacred communion.

There is a place and time for each, $1,000,000 and $1,000 love. Just know that there is a possibility for the $1,000,000 and make an informed choice.

The mindset

If you believe in your heart that it is impossible to get paid $1,000,000 a month, you will never receive it. What you get is what you believe, say and imagine. In an environment where everyone believes that it\’s impossible to make more than $1,000 a month, it takes a genius to get to $1,000,000 a month. It\’s the odyssey of people such as Oprah who built an empire out of nothing because her mind and willpower were absolutely unstoppable.

This is a simple reality, if you believe it\’s impossible to be faithful and to build orgasmic love with a partner, you won\’t experience it. Period.

Today, many people in Africa and around the world don\’t believe in love, true connection and faithful commitment. It has become something obsolete, impossible and those who refuse to adhere to this belief are called fools and dreamers. Naive and delusional. In such an environment, only the Oprah would survive and create orgasmic love. Most will stay at the level of being in a relationship \”just because\”, the society and the human being remaining at a low level of connection, unaware of the magnificent teachings and refining that a sacred communion offers.

The skill sets

If your mindset is right. If you can imagine the $1,000,000 communion. If, like me, it is your deepest desire to explore and practice orgasmic love, then the skill set is at your fingertips. Or should I say a click away. There are 3 important skill sets to orgasmic love:

• Understanding and embracing the polarity of feminine and masculine energy
• Exploring and loving  who you are, your deepest truth, desires and purpose
• Learning how to communicate effectively with your partner with compassion and openness

To dig deeper, here are few ressources to help you in your $1,000,000 endeavor:

• On orgasmic love: David Deida books: Dear Lover, Intimate Communion, Enlightened sex
• On marriage: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman
• On mindset: The 7 laws of success by Deepak Chopra
• On self-love: The Gift of Imperfection by Brenee Brown, The Power Within by Louise Hay
• On the Feminine: Awakeningshakti.com, Kittycavalier.com, The Red Book by

I have spent the last 4 years being a researcher on relationships, orgasmic love and deep consciousness. After my divorce and as I was mourning a 10-year relationship, I started a healing journey and a constant learning in the refined art of creating soul connections. With myself and others. I don\’t pretend to have all the answers but I certainly desire to bring awareness. My hope is that more people in Africa and around the world join me in the $1,000,000 Love Odyssey, that more people get closer and above to the $100,000 love and more, that maybe, one day, the 2% will become the majority. Enjoy the journey and good luck. With love, Silfath
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